my wife is the same way she puts up with it and has started making snide comments about me wearing bras and panties.. we no longer have sex .. she says i would rather wear sissy things and suck a cock or take a cock in my ass anyway ( that may be true) i am very attracted to her but she has no interest .. she laughs at me when i am dressd shaking her head saying what a pussy.. we was i a bar a few weeks ago and there was a loud mouth asshole in there and we had words and after she said you should have showed him your panties maybie he mite have taken you to bathroom and gave you his cock.. it made me mad a little . i guess she no longer looks at me as a man and i guess walking around in frilly panties and a bra wil do that..

My wife's attitude confuses the hell out of me.
Like jnj58 she draws the line at bras, but sometimes I'm allowed to wear panties whilst we mess about.
Despite her hatred of me in bras, she will happily buy me one to wear.
I son't think I get the evil eye, but a kind of exassperation.

You should buy your own panties. Women don't like it when you wear their things. You get them all out of shape. And if have never bought your own panties it can be very fun. And buy pretty, cute panties and maybe matching panties. Try these things and maybe you won't get the evil eye. Penny

my wife thinks i am a weirdo wearing her panties 24/7, i am not comfortable with her seeing me put on panties, sometimes she sees me and i get the evil eye, then other times she says something like i like your pink panties, she will see the lace band showing over my waistband of my shorts when i bend over, so i don't know what to think, silky

I have found out that many woman think that it is the panties, bras etc. that turn us on. They think that some how they been replaced by a pair of panties. And they don't like us wearing something every night. They need to understand that we have a need to full fill in our life. You need to find out what really bugs them about as dressing. And explain to them how you feel and what part they play. Some women will go along with us wearing panties or even nighties. But will only agree to go so far. At first you need to dress only some of the time. Then pick your times when to dress like a night out on the town. Women need more attention and need time to accept your love of dressing. Don't always try and have sex when you wear panties to bed. Just wear them like you would your male underwear. Pretty soon you will be wearing your panties 24/7. Just take it slow and than it will be part of your everyday life styles.

Has anyone turned around a wife who was "less than turned on" by crossdressing during sex? Mine seems to draw the line at my waist. If I put on a bra, the night goes right over a cliff.

Just want to see if anyone has had any luck bringing a wife into sharing our fun. My wife just "puts up with it" and comes close to a frown when my bra comes out.